So I was driving home from work tonight when I saw a cat in the middle of the road.  I swirved as much as I could with out crashing.  If the stupid cat kept going the original direction, everything would have been fine.  But no, it turned around and I ran it over.  I turend around to see if it was alive.  It didn't seem to be breathing.  I called 911 who gave me the number to animal welfare.  I got a pager.  I left my number but no one called me back.   I stayed in my car, but by the cat for 30 mins.  But when no one was coming to help me, I left.  I felt badly, but did not feel comfortable getting out of the car.  It was dark and all I kept thinking was that I was going to get bitten.  I didn't think that would be a good idea at 17 weeks pg.
Of course Ben said the only two choices were to take the cat to the SPCA or check for a collar and call the owners.  And I did neither, so that made me feel great.
Then I just remembered that I forgot to take Sam to get her flu shot Tues.  This upset me cause out of both the kids, she is the one that REALLY needs it.  And of couse, there was already a waiting list back in Sept before the shot became avaialble.
Ben's response was to the effect of I can call and put her on the list again, so why was I upset.  Can I tell you how much that made me want to deck him?
I then tell him that I am feeling overwhelmed and not like myself.  Things are just slipping my mind and I feel like I am getting lost.   And of couse, he has to try to "solve" things, when all he should do is just shut the f up and listen.  STUPID!  STUPID!  STUPID!
I just want to bawl right now.  I do feel overwhelmed.  And G-d help me if I mention any anxiety about the baby - cause his fav pat response is that I am the one who wanted the baby.  I get no f-ing help with anything that takes actual thought and planning  in this house.   NOTHING!  And when I say I am upset, what do I get?  Crap. 
And now he said he was sorry.  And what, that makes me feel better?  No, sorry, it does not.  Screw you.