this morning that was sincere and not just quippy lip service.  I also woke up and felt better.  (Yes, Tammy, the sun did come out, LOL.  Boy was I an Annie fanatic growing up, LOL.)  Ben is a good guy, a great dad and husband.  But, he is still a man and that means that sometimes he just is an ass.  Ben said it best when he explained the Asshole Factor.  All men have this, just some men have it worse than others.  Bad Asshole Factor is a man who cheats, does not come home, hangs at the bar all the time... ect.  Mild Asshole Factor is being insenstitive from time to time.  But all men have it.  LOL.  At least he understands that sometimes he is just a... you know ladies, now say it together... ASSHOLE.  LOL.