I occasionally check my old blog for traffic.  Ben was talking to me tonight cause this weekend we are supposed to go to a relations for a kids bday party and The One Who Must Not Be Named may be there.  He is afraid she may try to start some crap.  I am like, "Oh no, it will be fine..."  After he went to bed, I checked my tracker over there and guess who has been by several times recenty.  In fact, the links go straight to her stupid blog!  And then I noticed all these notices about my photos trying to be linked from outside and that B******** does not allow that.  So then, I went thru and deleted any pics I had posted of me and the family.  But I feel really violated and invaded.  It is like she is completely obsessed and a bit Single White Female.  I am completely uncomfortable now.   I really enjoy the rest of my relations and the kids have a blast... but... I don't know.  In my opinion, this person REALLY has some mental issues and I seem to be a focal point.  BLECH! 

What to do?